What does unconditional love mean? – Chat with Grupplue 1

2019年10月24日

What does unconditional love mean? The conversation with Grupplue started with the question. The conversation further shifted to the topic of self-worth.

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What does unconditional love mean?

Grupplue is a flower today.

Me: What does unconditional love mean?

Grupplue: It represents the worth of existence itself.

Me: What is “the worth of existence itself"?

Grupplue: It means the truth that you exist is worthy.

Me: I don’t understand well. I can’t understand the correlation between “the truth that you exist is worthy." and “unconditional love".

Grupplue: You exist. It is love.

Me: Is it love that I exist?

Grupplue: Yes, it is. You breathe now.

Me: Yes. I do.

Grupplue: You do. it is because you are loved.

Me: By whom I am loved?

Grupplue: You are loved by yourself.

Me: It hasn’t hit me yet.

Grupplue: You don’t need to hit you yet. Because Existence itself is love, as far as you exist, it is the proof of the concept of unconditional love.

Me: It is hard to understand. Can you easily tell me?

Grupplue: Love is the word that represents everything of the phenomenon as existence. You exist. It means you are loved. You breathe. It means you are loved. You are loved by your mother and father. I mean you are loved. Then, by what you are loved? It is yourself. Because you are loved by yourself, you are experiencing all of them. Yourself here means not yourself as a physical mind. Yourself as a physical mind is loved by yourself as the whole of everything.

What is the difference between myself as a physical mind and myself as the whole of everything?

Me: What is the difference between myself as a physical mind and myself as the whole of everything?

Grupplue:  Yourself as a physical mind is a temporary appearance projected for the purpose that you experience the physical reality in maximum. Yourself as the whole of everything is yourself as a creator to create the whole reality. Yourself as a physical mind exists, which means it is love by yourself as a creator. At the moment when yourself as a creator has an intention that yourself as a physical mind, you as a physical mind exist. The moment means the moment right now. On the forever-continuing present moment, you as a creator projects you as a physical mind.

Me: OK. Thank you. I have to leave now to take care of my daughter.

 

What are the difference between love when we think generally and unconditional love?

Me: Good morning. Can you tell me more about unconditional love? What are the difference between love when we think generally and unconditional love? For example, it is about romantic love between man and woman.

Grupplue: If you ask me if the romantic love between woman and man is unconditional, yes, it is also unconditional love. Whether you are loved (needed) or not, the whole experience is because of unconditional love. All experiences in the physical reality are a reflection of yourself as the whole of everything. Because you as the whole of everything love you of physical mind unconditionally, you as the whole of everything let you have the experience. Whether you feel positive or negative emotion, all your experiences are because of unconditional love by yourself as the whole of everything.

Me: Let’s say I am rejected by my girlfriend. Is it what you mean that it is because I am loved?

Grupplue: Yes you are right. Such experience in romantic love is also because of unconditional love by you as the whole of everything.

Me: But, it is hard to be rejected by someone I love.

Grupplue: The experience of suffering is also unconditional love by you as the whole of everything. Why do you feel suffering?

Me: For example, when I feel I am unworthy, or I am not important, I feel suffering.

Grupplue: It explains what love you think is. To maintain the kind of love, you try to match yourself to your partner’s expectations.

Vice versa, you expect your partner to match your expectations. You require that your partner makes you feel “you are worthy" or “you are important" and believe the fulfillment necessary. When the expectation is not fulfilled, you feel emotions such as anger, sadness, disappointment, shame, or fear.

Being made you worthy by someone is the condition for you to feel being loved. When you don’t feel it, you feel you are not loved. When you think your partner feels you unworthy, you feel your love ends.

Me: Yes, you are right.

Grupplue: In our world, it is different. We don’t call it love. The love you call so is, in other words, exchanging conditions. You need to show a worthy feeling about the partner to each other. You also require worthy feelings from the partner of each other. When the condition disappears, you call it the end of love.

There is no end of love. As far as you exist and experience something (even if it is suffering or joy), it is proof of unconditional love.

Is it meaningful for unconditional love to make us feel suffering?

Me: Is it meaningful for unconditional love to make us feel suffering?

Grupplue: Whether if you have any kind of experience, it gives you a clue to know your true self. If you feel suffering, it is nothing but resistance to your true self. By feeling suffering, you realize that you are not living your true self.

Me: By knowing I am not living my true self, what should I do?

Grupplue: You let go what you have believed “this is how I am". You are living you whom exactly you choose. Chosen you by you feel suffering. You let go of yourself chosen by you.

Me: Let’s talk again about unconditional love. So, to become me who live true self, I exist and experience. It is because of unconditional love by myself as a whole of everything. Is that what you are saying?

Grupplue: Yes, it is. And, the process continues until you realize that you are you as the whole of everything.

Me: It seems a very long process. In the beginning, unconditional love represents the worth of existence itself.

Grupplue: Yes.

Me: Can you explain more easily?

Grupplue: When you exist, it is worthy already. What is the worth? It is worth that you experience. Through your experience, you are going back to your true self. You realize what is your true self. You are realizing you are you as the whole of everything.

Me: OK. Can you tell me more about suffering in a romantic love relationship? I still don’t understand why we need to feel suffering.

Grupplue: If you ask me whether or not you should feel suffering, you don’t need to. The feeling of suffering is chosen by you. To the same reality, it is all possible that you feel suffering, joy, or neutral. You let go of yourself who feel suffering. If you try to let go of the feeling of suffering, you can’t because the setting about yourself who feel suffering is still there. You let go of the setting of you who feels suffering.

what do I do to let go of setting about myself who feel suffering?

Me: Then, what do I do to let go of setting about myself who feel suffering?

Grupplue: First of all, you realize and accept that you chose the setting of yourself who feel suffering. At the next, you find out what you feel suffering about. If the suffering is about not being loved by your partner, it is because you believe that you are seen as unworthy.

The suffering is not because you are seen as unworthy. When you accept and believe that you are seen as unworthy, your suffering is born. Even though you are seen as unworthy, if you don’t agree to it, suffering doesn’t appear. I also have to add that the reality that you are seen as unworthy is an illusion. Even if someone tells you that you are unworthy, the unworthiness is based on the rule that the person decides, and it never means you are unworthy.

What is the rule of worth which the other person decide? Actually, the person doesn’t understand it because it always changes. it is very normal in your world. For example, a product was popular a year ago and is believed very worthy. After a year, the product becomes unworthy, and nobody pays attention to it.

What do I do not to be influenced by the rule of worth decided by others?

Me: Then, what do I do not to be influenced by the rule of worth decided by others?

Grupplue: You decide that you are worthy in all the weathers. You decide that your existing is worthy.

Me: What do I do for that?

Grupplue: You decide so. You choose such yourself. That is all.

Me: But, I feel it is not that easy. How I can decide that I am unconditionally worthy?

Grupplue: You know the way. You have been working on developing a self-healing system that can let go of setting about yourself. You use it.

Me: Although I didn’t get an inspiration yet, I start working on it.

 

Do you feel you are unconditionally worthy?

Me: I developed the self-healing system to shift to the state “I am worthy" and tried with myself.

Grupplue: What is your feeling? Do you feel you are unconditionally worthy?

Me: I repeated 4 sessions and found out beliefs that block the feeling “I am unconditionally worthy", and they disappeared. Actually, now it is not important whether or not I am worthy. If you ask me “Are you worthy", and I need to answer with yes/no, I will reply yes. Now I know, understand, and feel “the worth of existence itself". That I exist is worthy. That I experience is worthy. I know it as my actual feeling.

Grupplue: Congratulations. Please share the method with everyone.

Me: Yes, I do.